👋 Hi, I’m Melissa!

Your partner in confident motherhood

Do you wish you could keep your cool when the shit hits the fan with your kids? 💩

Nonstop crying, meltdowns, and tantrums got you down? 😭

Whether it’s over not getting the blue cup or because the dog won’t lick their face, you’re exhausted with all of it. 😩

Why can’t they just get over it and move on with their day. Ain’t nobody got time for dealing with this shit! ⌛️

You never imagined motherhood would be so full of complaining, arguments and negativity. 👎🏻

But dear mama, let me ask you a question. 🙋‍♀️

How much are YOU contributing to the complaining, arguments, and negativity? 🙄

Are you also complaining when they meltdown – thinking that it shouldn’t be happening (after all it’s not that big of a deal…the blue cup still drinks the same)! 😳

Maybe you’re arguing with them about how they should just be grateful they even have water in the first place. 😬

And you’re stuck in a negative spiral because this whole motherhood thing is supposed to be easier…isn’t it? 🤷‍♀️

It gets to be easier when you solve the right problems!

The only problem right now is you’re trying to solve the wrong problems. I know, I know…but hear me out.

You’re focused on getting your kid to stop complaining, aruging, and crying.

But – NEWS FLASH! – you can’t actually control your kid and make them listen (I wish)!

It’s all a mission impossible illusion.

And that’s great news!

Because now you can shift from trying to do something that is IMPOSSIBLE and start to work on what’s actually possible for you:


Controlling yourself

You have the power to control yourself and how you respond to your child’s behavior. You’ll learn how to go from reacting to responding and be in charge of how your days go from here on out.


Listening to your child

When you shift from trying to make your child listen to listening to them you realize they’ve held the magic all along. They are an amazing guidebook to help you be the mom you’ve always wanted to be.


Creating the motherhood you’ve always dreamed of

I promise you no longer have to be at the mercy of your child and how they behave. It’s completely possible to take back control of your days, your motherhood, and your life!

What it’s like to work with me

“Working with Melissa has been such an incredible investment! She helped me reframe my negative thoughts around parenting and gave me the tools I need to manage my emotions when things feel hard. I feel so much more chilled out – I’m less worried and less hard on myself. I feel like I know what is important to me now and taking this time for myself has felt very nourishing!”


“Melissa is extremely attentive and compassionate. She takes the time to truly understand what you’re going through and give you the tools to change the negative feelings around whatever it is you’re dealing with while helping you develop the strengths you didn’t even realize you had.”

- Adrienne

Ready to be cool as a cucumber the next time your kids are acting crazy? 🥒

(Pick a day and time that works best for you to talk more about us working together so you can learn to stay calm when you’re in the middle of crazy 🤪)


Not quite ready to work together 1:1? Listen to my amazing podcast in the meantime to get relevant perspective shifts and things to try when the crazy is going strong!