You deserve alone time to recharge so you can be the mom you want to be
Let’s face it…doing everything for your husband, kids and home plus dealing with your child’s frustrating behavior is taking a toll on you. Discover how to stay calm and handle tough situations with confidence when everything feels like it’s too much!
Shift your mindset and experience the magic of motherhood everyone promised you
When we became moms for the first time, most of us expected it to be a blissful experience filled with a love we’d never experienced before. And while it is all that and more, we also realize it’s not all rainbows and unicorns. Motherhood pushes our limits and tests our boundaries in a whole new way.
We’re not taught how to effectively parent or raise children in school and the majority of the books out there only scratch the surface of what it’s really like. We often only have our parent’s example to follow (and often that example wasn’t that great), so it’s no surprise that SO many of us feel unprepared to deal with the stress and challenges that come with motherhood.
As a mom myself, I know that we need less, not more on our plate and that’s why I’ve structured the program in the way I have. With a simple 3-step process that’s easy to follow and a minimal time commitment of one hour per week on your part, I can show you that enjoying motherhood is possible for you, too.
Make Motherhood Magic is for you if:
You always have a million things on your mind which makes it difficult to be present with your family
You experience mom guilt for all the things and find it hard to do anything without feeling like you should be doing something else
You find it hard to ask for help and think it’s just easier to do everything yourself
You feel like there’s no time for yourself or to connect meaningfully with your partner
You compare yourself to other moms and never quite feel like you measure up
You are tired of yelling but never being heard
You often feel stressed and overwhelmed or are always in a bad mood
You often feel defeated and like you’re a bad mom who can’t do anything right
You feel like you’ve lost yourself in motherhood
Imagine…
Figuring out your values and priorities so you know what actually matters to you
Having a great day despite your kid being in a grumpy and difficult mood
Feeling way less mom guilt and knowing how to handle it when it does still show up
Asking for help without feeling guilty and then actually trusting the person to do the thing without overseeing every step
Seeing another mom doing something with her kids and not judging yourself for not doing the same
Going on a date with your partner and actually talking about something besides logistics or the kids and connecting like you used to before kids
Letting go of the self judgment and shame and embracing the amazing mom you are
Feeling like you can handle the day and whatever motherhood throws your way
Enjoying yourself while building legos with your kid because your mind isn’t 100 other places
Learning and implementing positive parenting strategies with your kids and watching your connection grow and relationships deepen
Feeling like yourself again – the you that’s been there all along, but she just got a little lost in the overwhelm of motherhood
What’s included in your coaching experience:
12 weekly sessions
1 hour a week completely dedicated to you and improving your experience of motherhood.
Voxer support
You can reach out anytime between sessions for support when you’re struggling or to share wins!
Call recordings & session notes
Go back to our sessions and review them at any time that’s convenient for you.
Access to tools, templates and other helpful resources
Tools designed to support you along the way and help you make actionable changes.
Motherhood Your Way playbook
Created based on our sessions together, this will be your reminder of what to do, what’s important to you, and how to navigate motherhood when the going gets tough.
No guilt self-care plan
A customized-for-you plan to allow you to take care of yourself first (guilt-free) so you can show up at your best for your family.
Unlock the Motherhood Magic 🪄
There is no playbook on how to be a great mom and what works best for each family will be different. However, without the self-awareness of unhelpful thoughts and habits we’ve picked up over the years, we’ll never learn to do things differently.
Through this 12-week program, I help you unlock the tools and the calm inside you so you can approach motherhood from a place of compassion and understanding versus impatience and frustration.
Here’s what we’ll cover during our time together:
Step 1: Confront the roadblocks
Discover strategies and tools to help you shift your mindset and take charge of the way you approach motherhood.
- Session 1: Set a vision for motherhood and goals to help you get there
- Session 2: Discover the importance of mindset and shifting it to get what you want
- Session 3: Uncover have to’s, should’s and expectations
- Session 4: Explore self-limiting beliefs and how they’re holding you back from what you most want
Step 2: Become your own best friend
Truly take care of yourself and treat yourself with compassion and love. Examine your worthiness and how to power up your self-confidence as a mom.
- Session 5: Move away from perfectionism and people pleasing
- Session 6: Treat yourself with forgiveness, love and compassion
- Session 7: Learn how to ask for help and set boundaries
- Session 8: Navigate mom guilt
Step 3: Align yourself with the magic
Discover the art of slowing down, questioning, and setting priorities as well as how to shift from your head to your heart and let it lead the way.
- Session 9: Learn to slow down and set priorities you feel good about
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Session 10: Create your own definitions, protocols, and manuals
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Session 11: Embrace your emotions
- Session 12: Do motherhood your way!
If you’re struggling to feel the magic of motherhood, this program supports you to:
Identify your unique goals and challenges as a mom
Find fulfillment in your role as a mom
Manage your time and energy more effectively
Build the confidence and skills needed to enjoy motherhood to the fullest
Parent in a way you’re proud of while creating generational change
Implement strategies to manage stress so you can enjoy life more
Build stronger connections with your children and partner
Feel in control of your parenting experience as a mom
Carve out guilt-free time for the things you enjoy most
Ready to start enjoying motherhood again?
It’s hard to enjoy motherhood when you’re always exhausted, frustrated and in a bad mood.
Investing in yourself not only changes your experience of motherhood, but it also flows through to your kids, too. And someday it will flow onto their kids…and on and on. You can change it all starting right now. Imagine when you start showing up differently as a mom – happier, lighter, more fun. Your kids will love seeing you smile again instead of always yelling and nagging them to pick up after themselves. Your partner will love your renewed “chill” and flexibility. And you will love the way you feel – full of confidence and connected to your family again.
You can’t afford to spend another minute not enjoying motherhood
Our time with our kids is limited, and we only get this one chance to get it right. The connections you form with them today will go on to define the relationship you have with them when they’re all grown up. Investing in yourself now as a mom will create a positive ripple effect that will impact the future dynamics of your family and the generations of family to come. Don’t let another minute go by where you feel inadequate as a mom. The time to be more intentional about how you parent is now!
“Working with Melissa has been such an incredible investment! She helped me reframe my negative thoughts around my parenting and gave me the tools I need to manage my emotions when things feel hard. I feel so much more chilled out in my day-to-day parenting – I’m less worried and less hard on myself. I feel like I know what is important to me now and taking this time for myself has felt very nourishing!”
“Melissa has a very calming presence and holds space for you to work towards your own answers. She is an excellent listener and provides insightful questions that encourage you to get to the root of the issue. I felt greatly supported and finished the program with practical and actionable steps to take. I highly recommend Melissa!”
“You heard and reflected back in a ’new’ way some of the things I said. You are very skilled at introducing possibilities without telling me what to do!”
“Melissa is extremely attentive and compassionate. She takes the time to truly understand what you’re going through and give you the tools to change the negative feelings around whatever it is you’re dealing with while helping you develop the strengths you didn’t even realize you had.”
Don’t let the overwhelm keep you from a motherhood experience that makes you feel amazing!
If you’re ready to shift your mindset and approach motherhood with a fresh perspective so you can enjoy it once and for all, then book a call below to get started.
👋 Hi, I’m Melissa!
Your partner in motherhood
I’m a certified life coach and mentor, simple living enthusiast, and mom of two wonderful kids. Motherhood has been a rollercoaster of a ride for me that’s taken me on a journey from questioning myself and everything I did to fully trusting myself and knowing what’s right for me and my family.
It’s an ongoing evolution, this motherhood thing, and I want to help you rethink and simplify motherhood as you know it so you can savor this time you have with your kids. There’s enough going on in the world today, let’s make this motherhood thing as easy and enjoyable as possible for you!